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Dude, I Told You She’s Just Waiting For Your Move

June 23, 2007

I remember a conversation with a friend who has some “problems” about asking his GF to…make out (and going all the way).

Guy: I don’t know how to ask her about it. She seems conservative. She might get mad or offended.

Me: Trust me, she’s just waiting for your move.

Of course, we’re not talking about a couple of teenagers here. I don’t want to be a bad influence! Both, I think, are of legal age and may engage in sexual relations if they want to.

My close guy-friends also asked me about this: How do you know if she wants to have sex? There’s a common notion that women want less sex than men. This perhaps can be blamed on the society’s promotion of sexual stereotypes: that men are more sexually permissive than women. Men are expected by the society to be more adventurous with sex, have sex with as many people as possible, or to be more verbal about their want for sex.

On the other hand, women are expected by the society to see sexual permissiveness as a social taboo. And so, men aren’t embarrassed if you find them browsing Playboy magazines or viewing sex movie scandals, but women would be blushing angry red if you caught them even a foot near such things.

There is, however, a study that debunks the myth that women want sex less than men. The study, published in the April issue of the journal Sex Roles, reveals that “sexual stereotypes don’t hold when romantic feelings come into play” (LiveScience.com). According to the study, when women are in a committed relationship, they ditch the society-imposed gender roles and express their want for intimate relations.

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Written by Prudence · Filed Under Personal, Relationships, Women 

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