Love is a decision

Posted by hazelsheryll on August 18, 2007 · Leave a Comment

When you are in the state of being “in love”, your life becomes blissfully colorful and interesting. You live and breathe for your object of interest and you walk around with a certain bounce and flair. You scribble that one special name on your notes with hearts and arrows all around it and spend sleepless nights dreaming and hoping for sweet moments together, if not reliving them. With the advancement of technology, chances are you even spend hours chatting over instant messenger or send each other SMS with mushy endings like “labyu labyu, mwamwamwahhhh!” in an attempt to convey your overflowing emotions of love and loyalty despite the physical and geographical distance. Of course, flowers, chocolates, teddy bears and whispered sweet nothings become the highlight of your togetherness, you get giddy at the sight and smell of him even if he is “amoy -araw” already and his kind words feed your soul. Everything about him and every single moment you share together are kilig-factors that renew your spirit. And then, in a snap, everything just falls apart, perhaps because he “wasn’t man enough” for you or you woke up one morning and felt you’re dreading the sight and smell of him, in short, you’ve “fallen out of love”. There can be numerous reasons, you know, but the bottom line is, “it just did not work out”. Well, that’s the bottom line for you. When friends and relatives ask about the break up, that’s what you say, and why not? It’s more convenient to use that one liner than to go into details, because as you do, you get lost in a myriad of reasons and finger-pointing (like who really is to blame???). And the recovery process for the injured party becomes extremely difficult, because in truth, you both forgot one thing: to make each other a decision, not an option.

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