Mommy, not now

Posted by nina bumanglag on December 1, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Last night, my mom, myate and I had a very serious talk about guys, sex and marriage. It wasnâ€™t the first time we had this kind of conversation but last night was the most serious, if not, the most intense girl talk weâ€™ve ever had concerning these matters. My sister is getting married next year and of course, my mom is going gaga over everything including me.

My sister will be 29 next year, not the expected age my mom wanted her to get married and definitely not the perfect age to start having kids. My mom had always wanted for us to get married as early as 25 so we can have kids way before the dreaded age 30 comes. Ideally, it sounds nice but then again that age target is a tad too early for todayâ€™s women to get settled. Especially me, I mean Iâ€™m already 22 and after I graduate from college, I still have to go to medschool, earn my license and then work. Earning an MD entails service and this is something I am determined to commit myself to no matter what ~~or who~~.

My parents have repeatedly urged me to invite those pesky suitor(s) to our house. But I had to refuse them because (1) I donâ€™t like him/them and (2) Iâ€™ll only be wasting my time entertaining him/them. And besides, having a boyfriend isnâ€™t my goal right now and it can wait. Iâ€™m not idiotic to go out with someone just because I am told to. NO, I am more than that and I have bigger plans to emerge myself into. More importantly, those pesky guy/s donâ€™t know squat about what I like. Darn it, all they know are medical stuff! Not that itâ€™s bad but thatâ€™s just boring! They canâ€™t even tell me anything about politics and movies and books and music and stuff. I canâ€™t live without current events and humor! ARGH!

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