Go!
It took me a leap of faith to post aphorisms about this subject. Why? Because if this is a graded subject, I will have a failing marks I bet. As far as handling relationships is concern, I’m the typical “Hold on, Just Keep on Holding On” girl, err, woman… This is something that I’m not good at, experience and application wise. But taking the courage to put into writing what letting go is all about is like a bitter pill that I need to swallow to get well and feel better. What else can I say but……
Go!
Some things are not meant to be, no matter how hard you try.
Sometimes the best solution to a never ending situation is to get out of it.
In simple terms, sometimes the best option is to get out of the situation.
Too much dependency is toxicity. Handle your self with care.
No one else does better.
Sometimes in order to learn, you must learn apart.
Saviour complex is dangerous. You think you can change and save a person while you manipulate life. The danger is two way, you’ll both have miserable life.
They say, Love is learned. It is.
But when love is learned, it can be unlearned likewise.
Where there is little love, there’s no love after all.
For oftentimes, loving means accepting everything, even suffering for the beloved. But when you give limit to suffering, you limit your capacity to love and therefore, there’s no little love at all.
The worst realization is the feeling of getting use and abuse. If you’ll never get out of this situation, it’s self oblivion. The bottom line is up for you to decide.
No matter how long you give an extension, there will always be an end of the line. And once you are over it, mean it. Nobody can change it.
But perhaps, love can change it.
Build a home within yourself. Be ready to depend on your own, in able for you to grow.
Given the option of giving or receiving love…
It’s still
Go grace, go giver.
How about
Go grace, go grow!
In time, perhaps, perhaps.
