Encounter with Cousin’s Wife – “comments”
In connection with what I have written 3 days ago, which was about my terrible encounter with my cousin’s wife, some bloggers have made comment on that and gave me some positive insights as to what should I do. Two of them, Issai and Brazenlass advised me to stop lending my cousin’s wife money and that I should tell my cousin what she has done to me. Issai added that I should totally remove her from my life, which I already did because I believe that she has just used me for her own sake. Of course, after this sad and bad experience with “this person”, I will never talk to her again, ever! I will just look at her now in a different and very low level. She does not deserve my friendship and I should have listened to my female cousin when she told me that “this person” is almost synonymous to crap! I have heard too many negative things about this person but I did not mind them because I am not the kind of person who is easy to judge other people unless it is I myself who have witnessed or experienced the things that they told me about. My female cousin is very right and I thought at first that she was wrong. How come relatives sometimes disappoint you or do something bad to you? Sometimes, it is even better to help strangers than your relatives for some reason. At least with strangers, you will not expect anything from them in return. With relatives, of course being as such, you cannot avoid sometimes to count on them and it hurts me so much, when things like this happens because I only want to create nice and good relationships, even if they are only wife or husband of a cousin. Unfortunately, things between me and “this person” did not reap good things.
“My Horrible Experience With my Cousin’s Wife”
What are your primary reasons why you write? Do you get money out of it or it is just for plain pleasure for seeing your blogs being read by other people? Maybe, maybe not. As for me, I write because I want to vent out my feelings and thoughts, whether they are sad, negative, happy, or destructive ones. I just want to write that’s all. For a person who lives a very mind-numbing life, it is not surprising that I do not have so much to write about except about myself and my experiences in everyday basis. Speaking of which, something has just come up into my mind and prompted me to write about it. It is about the wife ( I don’t know if they are already legally married though), of my cousin’s who I really do not know in terms of her dealings with other people because I have not seen her nor talked to her for more than a decade for several reasons. Anyway, the first time I got to talk to her was almost two years ago, at my cousin’s wedding. Of course, most of our relatives came to witness that event. One of my male cousins is quite close to her that one time he encouraged me to go to their house somewhere in Cainta. The first encounter was great; my cousin’s wife was really accommodating and hospitable. One time, she even invited me to go with them in going to Bicol for the “All Saint’s Day” observance, which I gladly accepted.
Everything went well during that 3-day stay in Bicol. We continued communicating and we even agreed on meeting one Sunday afternoon in one of the malls in Makati. From the very beginning we started talking, there is one thing that I noticed about her. She always borrow money from me. Well, I thought that was fine, if I could afford it, I will lend her, provided of course, that she pays me back. When we were still in Bicol for our 3-day “All Saint’s Day” vacation, she already borrowed me 1,000 pesos in total, which I told her not to pay me anymore because I felt that it was only proper of me to chip in for the gas and other expenses. I am not sure though up to this day, if my cousin knew about that money. Few weeks after that, she borrowed money from me again in the pretext that one of her sisters was in the hospital and that her family really needed money. So, being soft-hearted, I lent her money once again, which she promised to pay after one week, which she failed to do so unfortunately. She was able to pay me back after two weeks or so. It was fine with me because I was not really in need of money that time.
Cheap and Easy to Find Foods Which can Help You to Stay Young
A lot of people, both men and women, are now becoming very concerned about fighting the adverse effect of aging, that, especially those who can afford will do just about anything just to counter its effect. In this modern technology, there are numerous state-of-the-art procedures that one can have such as removing the wrinkles through laser beam, cosmetic surgery and many more. However, for those who cannot afford, there are cheap and easy ways to do the same and should not worry themselves about having the same procedures because there are so many foods that are readily available that you can find right there inside of your pantry or kitchen and they do not need to be expensive. Would you believe that there are six kinds of food that will definitely bring back the youth?
Most dietitians and nutritionists are in the same opinion that “spinach” is one of the foods that can help you delay the effect of aging because it is packed with Vitamin K which is primarily responsible for the enhancement of bone density which in the long run decreases the chance of getting bone fractures especially among older people. In addition, spinach is very rich in nutrients called “zeaxanthin” and “lutein” which helps eyes, particularly retinas from getting damaged when they are exposed to light. In other words, spinach is really good in terms of preventing you from being blind and macular degeneration.
Near-Hire Training… or FAR????
Does anyone of you here work for Telus International? The former name of this call center is Ambergris. I just have few nagging questions… last April 1st, I was initially interviewed and I think I did quite well because the interviewer told me to wait for their call for the near-hire training. It is a two-week training that the company provides for those whose call center skills need more honing and improvement, and the good thing about it is that it is a paid training.. Cool!
The thing is, it’s been more than 2 months since I was first interviewed and they haven’t called me back yet. I tried to follow-up on it, but they told me to just wait more because they will just call me back.. Waaahhhh, I am getting a bit impatient now.
Can somebody please tell me what to do? Help!!!!
Thanks!
Filipino People Are Evil! (A horrible remark)
It is already June 13th, which also happens to be a friday, but the subject of this blog is not really about friday the 13th but rather about this much talked about “Independence Day”. Filipinos from all around the globe and certain parts of the country have simultaneously raised the Philippine flags and have proudly showed to the world that the Filipino people are the strong forces that have made the Philippines a country that it has become now.
Prior to this independence day that all of us are enjoying right now, lots of battles and blood have been shed, many of our forefathers have sacrificed their lives in order for us to enjoy the freedom and democracy that some of us right now are taking for granted. To show your love for country, you don’t need to become a prominent political figure, a rich person, or someone who has great power. Anyone, it doesn’t matter who you are, have the power to show their Filipinism by doing small things. If you add up the small good deeds that you do, it will pile up to a greater kind of positive thing.
Bux.to : Scammer or what?!?!
That site scammed me and took my $34.95! I was scouring the net for online job opportunites so I can supplement my present income when I found this good-looking site that offers not so big amount of money that I can earn once I joined them. The money was not that big but if you think of it, you will at least earn 100$ a month, if it is really a legit site. Anyway, joining and setting up an account is free, the only thing that a member have to do is clik on the ads on the site and wait for 30 seconds for the few cents to be credited on your account. One ad is worth $.01. But this site has also other features. A member can have people under him/her once they purchased networks which costs according to your chosen package. Like myself I bought 35 networks or other active members, which cost me almost $35, and whose earnings will be credited to my account. it’s a networking, so I earn a portion of their income.
It was doing ok for the first few months, I can see that I am earning everyday. If we want to cash-out, the minimum amount of money that we have on our account should be at least $10.00. I had already more than $34 in my account, so I thought I should try to cash-out my money and see if this site is for real. I did cash-out… But guess what I found out? processing of the payment for those members whose membership is standard will take 60 working days, and those membership is premium is 30 working days. hmmmm… why such a long processing time? According to the site, it is because they wanna make sure that they don’t make mistakes in paying every member so everything should be taken with so much care, and that is why it took them a long time to pay the members who made a cash out transaction.
“Ten Things Women Should Consider When Dating Men”
Are you the kind of person who is very choosy when it comes to dating? And are you the kind of woman who at the early stage of dating course, end a booming relationship even without knowing the person any further whom you are dating? I know most of us just want to meet a nice man who has great potential to become a lover, someone we can fall in-love with and eventually marry and share the rest of our life with, are we not?
Yah, I hear and understand you girls, very much so… I am one with you. In all honesty, I am losing hope with the declining number of great single men in the love market nowadays. Or are we just afraid of meeting those jerks who will just make us fall in-love and then when we are so already dependent on them, and seem like we cannot live without them, will suddenlly leave our broken hearts spilled on the ground? Ouch! I know nobody wants to be in that state of emotions anymore… ever again!! Because of this, sometimes some of us becomes commitment-phobic.
According to Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, the author of “Kosher Sex”, there are two kinds of people who are commitment-phobic: one is passive commitment-phoebe, it is a person who hinders a passionate romantic attachment even before it grows by dating unsuitable persons, and the other one is the active commitment- phoebe, who gets afraid and constantly looking for ways to get out once the relationship tends to get more serious. Are you one of these? I know, nobody is perfect. Some of you may have dated men who in the middle of your conversation answers his phone, or a workaholic, or not close to his family. For some people, these signs could be red flags.
Wanted: Perfect Bridegroom!!!
Wanna come to my wedding party? Of course, everyone is invited to come! But first of all, I guess I have to find a groom.. Yah, that is right, folks. A groom! I am laughing at myself now for feeling a bit desperate about having the man of my own and someone I can be with for the rest of my life, not necessarily to get married though.
I am a 30 year old lady who together with my also 30-something year old cousin, wondering and waiting for the day for that special someone to come and sweep me off my feet and make me fall so madly in-love with him. Why is it that nowadays it is so hard to find a nice guy? It’s either they are already taken or they are gays! Girls, girls, girls, don’t you get a bit desperate sometimes about this phenomenon? There is not just enough nice men for everyone.
I’ve had many relationships in the past, all of them made me feel happy for a certain period of time but I ended up crying. I think that is an inevitable circumstance that anyone should face and learn to accept. I am not really asking for heavens and earth, you know… All I just want is for me to be happy… who would not want to be loved and be happy anyway? It sounds so easy but honestly, this is one thing that’s been escaping from my grasp. No matter what I do, it just wont let me have it. What the hell is wrong with me? ( ooopppsss…. I am saying this half-jokingly!)
Writing gigs for Budding Writers
I have been out of job for months and within those money drained months I have been sending my resume’ and attending series of interviews to different call center companies that I know of but unfortunately my search for that elusive dream job have not yet landed on my hand. Sometimes it can be really draining and devastating to know you failed the interview (again!) and at times I felt like the world was conspiring against me. Well, not all of the companies I applied for dumped my resume in the trash can.
There is this one company which told me that I will be called back for the near-hire training. It is a training for those whose call center skills are marginal and needs more honing, it will take 2 weeks for us to finish the entire curriculum and the good thing about this is that it is a paid training. But good heavens, it’s almost 2 months since that interview and still they haven’t called me back and I am getting a bit impatient already. As much as I want to lose my hope, I can’t do that because hope is the only wisdom that is left in me at this time of my life.
Great and Important Events are Meant to be Celebrated!
A day after my Lola was buried, the 6 remaining and surviving children of my Lola’s together with their respective spouses minus my father and me (we embarked on a journey going back here in Manila that same morning because my father and mother had an LQ), went to a resort to take off their mind from all the things that have just transpired in the past weeks. And as far as I know going to a beach or any body of water was also part of the tradition or should I say, superstition.. that is to ward off any negative and aversive energy that’s connected with death, that is according to old people’s tale.
They were all still very tired and have not had enough rest and sleep but it seemed that almost everyone were still very full of energy and still up for anything fun. You can never see any tiredness on their faces nor did anyone of them complained of not having enough rest or food. Early that Friday morning, they had to cook food that they will be bringing to the outing and prepare all the things that they will be needing to have the most enjoyable day of their lives free from any hassle, well at least for that day.
