You are your own motivational speaker

You paid that guy 80,000 pesos for an hour talk because he said that he is the best motivational speaker in the Philippines. Now you think that he does not deserve the money.

I think you missed the point. That guy is a supersalesman. That guy is not the best motivational speaker in the Philippines, in Asia, in the World, and in the whole Solar System. He made that claim because he accepted the new age teaching of self-attraction and affirmation. The teaching says that you only need to keep on saying that you are the best blank and you will become that blank… continue reading

About: Jef Menguin is a Filipino inspirational speaker. He published blog entries entitled Letters to Inspirational Speakers. You can reach him through his blog- http://jefmenguin.com

Do not wait for extraordinary opportunities

Most people are waiting for the big breaks. But waiting does not ready a man for big breaks.  If you want to make it big in life, I dare you not to wait for extraordinary opportunities. Grab every opportunity you have, even the all too common small ones, and make them great.

Only those who welcome small opportunities into their lives can truly recognize the big one when it comes. The world is filled with stories of successful people who persisted, seized the day, and make the most of what they have.

The first time I offered my seminars to school teachers, I sent letters to 100 schools.  Many teachers are not confident speakers and I thought I could help. Only one school invited me to share my “speaking secrets”.  But they did not send their teachers. They asked me to share it to grade 5 and grade 6 student leaders.  Of course, I shared my speaking secrets to elementary students. I was secretly hoping that they could share their newly found confidence to their teachers.

During my first public seminar, only two participants came. They attended because they were friends. I did not earn money on that day. But I was able to rehearse my Speak with Confidence workshop. There is no small opportunity. Grab the first opportunity, no matter how small it may seem, for that is an opportunity to the next one. So the next time you are invited to speak to a hundred and only 10 come, speak  like you are speaking to millions. Those ten persons can create for you hundreds, thousands, and even millions of audiences. Just be great and do your best every time.

When was the last time you missed an opportunity?  Take action. Today is an opportunity to share your experience with other people.

About the author: Jef Menguin is a starfisher. He believes that making a difference, small or big, starts with a decision to change oneself. He is a training consultant, motivational speaker, and trying hard blogger. Visit his website – http://jefmenguin.com – today.

Filipino motivational speaker

I created a new sulit ad for my services. This website has been helping me make my seminars and workshops more visible online. I hope you can share this post to your friends.

So, You Want to Book Filipino Motivational Speaker Jef Menguin today? is the title of the ad.

I also encourage you to visit my website, share your thoughts on leadership, personal development,  and communication. And yes, you may also guest blog.

Have a wonderful day.

Jef Menguin

http://jefmenguin.com

Share your stress management tips and WIN a Joel Osteen book

I am now collecting practical stress management tips in preparation for my next Stress for Success workshops. I am pretty sure you have something to share.

For fun, I will be giving two books for two winners who can give the best stress management tips. Please spread this activity to your friends. Let us make this world a little better.

Log on to the contest post and leave your tips in the comment section. Here is your link:

http://jefmenguin.com/2010/02/what-are-the-simplest-and-most-effective-ways-to-manage-the-stress-in-your-life/

Jef Menguin

About: Jef Menguin is a Filipino motivational speaker and a training consultant. He also designs and facilitates teambuilding workshops.

Decide to live your ideal life

What is your most ideal day? Do you know exactly how you want to live your life for the next five days, five weeks, five months, and five years? When was the last best day of your life? When is the next?

The best day of our lives is today. The past is no longer here. We cannot enjoy it any longer. To dwell on the past is to waste the opportunity to enjoy the present. The future is a promise, a time that will not come because what we have is only today. When tomorrow comes, it will not be tomorrow anymore, it becomes your today. Sounds philosophical huh? But I am not trying to sound philosophical. You cannot enjoy tomorrow unless you know how to enjoy your today.

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