5 Things

There are no perfect persons; no perfect relationships but in this lifetime, you’re lucky to even meet someone molded to fit the curves of your being and fill the empty spaces of your soul.

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Go!

It took me a leap of faith to post aphorisms about this subject. Why? Because if this is a graded subject, I will have a failing marks I bet. As far as handling relationships is concern, I’m the typical “Hold on, Just Keep on Holding On” girl, err, woman… This is something that I’m not good at, experience and application wise. But taking the courage to put into writing what letting go is all about is like a bitter pill that I need to swallow to get well and feel better. What else can I say but……

Go!

Some things are not meant to be, no matter how hard you try.

Sometimes the best solution to a never ending situation is to get out of it.

In simple terms, sometimes the best option is to get out of the situation.

Too much dependency is toxicity.  Handle your self with care.

No one else does better.

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My Sordid Love Affair

I don’t know if a “sordid love affair” justifies my story, but I like how it sounds (okay and maybe I like the word sordid too) so the title stays.

I’ve only had one love affair in my whole existence. Through that experience, I realized that I am not cut for love affairs. Some people can handle it, I can’t. I was on the losing end, but I didn’t know that then. I thought I was fighting for something worth fighting for. In the end, I realized, I was desperately fighting for a delusional love that I thought I can have.

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How Far are You willing to Go for Love?

I thought I know a lot of things about love. I thought having at least one long-term relationship gives you the right to say that you’re a seasoned pro on love. It turned out I was wrong.

Listening to people of the same age as I am talk about their experiences and how they dealt with their problems made me doubt my capacity to love.
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Brenda

The misadventures of girl in search for love.

I am, like most people, a sucker for real love. Living in a society where homosexuality and same-sex relationships are taboo, makes finding true love a hard task. Yes, I search for one. I’m not like everyone else who patiently waits for love to come knocking on her door. My real name is Brenda, but in the world I live in, I am Ben. This is my story.

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Motel Rooms, Street Markets and a Church

Anna and Mike work on different hours. A few months after the couple got their jobs, they finally found a way to make their relationship work, amidst their conflicting schedule.

There isn’t really much to do on a Saturday night – on a late Saturday night. Boozed-out individuals refused to leave the almost-empty bar. Insomniacs and groups of boys and girls with hormonal imbalance, flock the nearby coffee shop, not really to drink coffee but to make use of the free wi-fi service or to take a few more drag of nicotine before they all finally decide to call it a night.

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Spellbound

-An attempt on poetry-


In the stillness of the night,

I felt my heart beating fast.

heard the thumping in my head,

suffocating, drowning me.


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How To Not Die Alone

Behold! Hereunder are ten tips to hook your Mr. Right. These are tried and tested and proven to give you the results you only dreamed about. Follow these tips and you would soon be walking hand in hand with the love of your life. (And may god have mercy on his soul.)

1. Create a Picture of the Guy of Your Dreams. sad girl

What are the characteristics that define your quality guy? Do you prefer someone who’s got more brains than brawns, a Bill-Gates-type of guy who could be a loyal puppy and might actually make you rich someday? Or someone who has overflowing testosterone but is a little IQ-challenged, a poster-perfect hunk that you can parade around for ego points and who wouldn’t even question your motives? Read more…

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